arm64: dts: imx95-19x19-evk: correct the phy setting for flexcan1/2

1, the phy support up to 8Mbit/s databitrate for CAN FD.
   refer to product data sheet:
     https://www.nxp.com/docs/en/data-sheet/TJA1463.pdf
2, the standby pin of the phy is ACTIVE_LOW.
3, the phy of flexcan2 connect the standby/en pin to PCAL6408 on i2c4 bus.

Fixes: 02b7adb ("arm64: dts: imx95-19x19-evk: add adc0 flexcan[1,2] i2c[2,3] uart5 spi3 and tpm3")
Signed-off-by: Haibo Chen <haibo.chen@nxp.com>
Reviewed-by: Frank Li <Frank.Li@nxp.com>
Signed-off-by: Shawn Guo <shawnguo@kernel.org>

Author: BoughChen

arch/arm64/boot/dts/freescale/imx95-19x19-evk.dts

@@ -80,17 +80,17 @@
 	flexcan1_phy: can-phy0 {
 		compatible = "nxp,tjr1443";
 		#phy-cells = <0>;
-		max-bitrate = <1000000>;
+		max-bitrate = <8000000>;
 		enable-gpios = <&i2c6_pcal6416 6 GPIO_ACTIVE_HIGH>;
-		standby-gpios = <&i2c6_pcal6416 5 GPIO_ACTIVE_HIGH>;
+		standby-gpios = <&i2c6_pcal6416 5 GPIO_ACTIVE_LOW>;
 	};
 
 	flexcan2_phy: can-phy1 {
 		compatible = "nxp,tjr1443";
 		#phy-cells = <0>;
-		max-bitrate = <1000000>;
-		enable-gpios = <&i2c6_pcal6416 4 GPIO_ACTIVE_HIGH>;
-		standby-gpios = <&i2c6_pcal6416 3 GPIO_ACTIVE_HIGH>;
+		max-bitrate = <8000000>;
+		enable-gpios = <&i2c4_gpio_expander_21 4 GPIO_ACTIVE_HIGH>;
+		standby-gpios = <&i2c4_gpio_expander_21 3 GPIO_ACTIVE_LOW>;
 	};
 
 	reg_vref_1v8: regulator-1p8v {