Auto merge of #150133 - ZuseZ4:enzyme-frontend-nightly, r=jieyouxu

remove llvm_enzyme and enzyme fallbacks from most places

Using dlopen to get symbols has the nice benefit that rustc itself doesn't depend on libenzyme symbols anymore. We can therefore delete most fallback implementations in the backend (independently of whether we enable enzyme or not). When trying to use autodiff on nightly, we will now fail with a nice error if and only if we fail to load libEnzyme-21.so in our backend.

Verified:
Build as nightly, without Enzyme
Build as nightly, with Enzyme
Build as stable (without Enzyme)

With this PR we will now run `tests/ui/autodiff` on nightly, the tests are passing.

r? `@kobzol`

Author: bors